Blame

The word blame is common and used often but do you know what it really means? Blame is when you point the finger at someone else; yes. But it is so much more than that. Blame is when you don’t take responsibility for the situation at hand. Blame is when you look at someone else when you should only be looking at yourself. If anyone is to blame for your circumstances, it is you. No one else. You have created your circumstances, good, bad, or indifferent. They are your creation. You are the be all and end all of your creation. So any time you are pointing the finger at someone else, or blaming a situation or circumstance for your troubles or outcome, you are only drawing attention to what you created. You attracted the circumstances to you out of who you were being at the time. Your belief system held them in place and you reinforce their existence by acknowledging them and thinking they are something outside of you. If you want to change your circumstances, change your view of them and stop blaming others. Others are not the cause. You are.